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It has been seven years since I've seen my mom.  So much has happened!  I've graduated college, became Manager at my job, left my job, moved to a far away state, found the man I want to marry.....the list goes on!  I really wish I could share all of these things with my mom :(  I know she would be so happy for me.


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Is there anyway to find your mom? or rekindle your relationship with her?


I understand the feeling of being motherless. 8 years had past since I saw my mom, and all kinds of things had gone right and wrong in my life, and she wasn't there to share them. It can be a hurting feeling sometimes. But the thing I love most about my mom despite her distance in my adult like is that she was there when it matter. As a child and teenage she instilled things in me that I carry with me today.


 


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Is your relationship severed with you Mom???


My mother is alive and we have a good relationship but I lost my father when I was 21 and understand the feelings of loss. I find that when really happy events happen in your life that is when you miss them the most.


You have accomplished so much Danielle. You should be very proud!!!


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Is there anyway to find your mom? or rekindle your relationship with her?


I understand the feeling of being motherless. 8 years had past since I saw my mom, and all kinds of things had gone right and wrong in my life, and she wasn't there to share them. It can be a hurting feeling sometimes. But the thing I love most about my mom despite her distance in my adult like is that she was there when it matter. As a child and teenage she instilled things in me that I carry with me today.


 


Hey Antoinette...
Do you think your relationship with your Mom will ever turn a corner???


It's not who you are that holds you back. It's who you think you're not. - Unknown

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mzbrown says ...



Is there anyway to find your mom? or rekindle your relationship with her?


I understand the feeling of being motherless. 8 years had past since I saw my mom, and all kinds of things had gone right and wrong in my life, and she wasn't there to share them. It can be a hurting feeling sometimes. But the thing I love most about my mom despite her distance in my adult like is that she was there when it matter. As a child and teenage she instilled things in me that I carry with me today.


 


Hey Antoinette...
Do you think your relationship with your Mom will ever turn a corner???

I love my mother dearly and we talk from time to time, but it will probably never go back to the way it was when I was a teenager. I hope as the years go on and she gets older that we can turn that corner and be close again, and that she can have a relationship with my son.


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Antoinette,


On one hand life is so short but on the other it is long and you never know what tomorrow will bring. I hope it works out fo you...I'll say a prayer!


It's not who you are that holds you back. It's who you think you're not. - Unknown

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 Actually my mom passed away when I was 16...she had breast cancer.   Appreciate all of your kinds words <3 


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 Actually my mom passed away when I was 16...she had breast cancer.   Appreciate all of your kinds words <3 



Danielle, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I didn't pick up on the fact that your mom had passed in your original post. Forgive me.


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Antoinette,


On one hand life is so short but on the other it is long and you never know what tomorrow will bring. I hope it works out fo you...I'll say a prayer!



Thanks for the prayer Angela. We are certainly trying to get closer.


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It has been seven years since I've seen my mom.  So much has happened!  I've graduated college, became Manager at my job, left my job, moved to a far away state, found the man I want to marry.....the list goes on!  I really wish I could share all of these things with my mom :(  I know she would be so happy for me.



You do see your mom every day Danielle, in the values that she had instilled in you , what you have become as a sucessful woman. Just know that wherever she is, she is looking at you with a great big grin as proud as a peahen because you have accomplished so much in your life. 

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DanielleMarandino says ...



It has been seven years since I've seen my mom.  So much has happened!  I've graduated college, became Manager at my job, left my job, moved to a far away state, found the man I want to marry.....the list goes on!  I really wish I could share all of these things with my mom :(  I know she would be so happy for me.



You do see your mom every day Danielle, in the values that she had instilled in you , what you have become as a sucessful woman. Just know that wherever she is, she is looking at you with a great big grin as proud as a peahen because you have accomplished so much in your life. 



 


Great response Elorraine.


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July 28th marked 22 years since my mother passed away.  Seems like a lifetime ago and really was!  I dream sometimes that I run in to her somewhere and she can't recognize me b/c I am so different and nothing about my life is familiar to her.


Sometimes I wonder what it would have been like growing up with my mother.  But I am pretty proud of the person I am even without her.


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 JPD, there is definitely a sense of empowerment I have attained since my mother's passing.  It takes a strong person to get through that kind of loss.  It saddens me to see that my younger brother chose a different method of coping with her loss.  I do agree with you I feel proud of who I am!  You should be too.  Thank you for posting & sharing.  Bless you 


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I am a "motherless daughter" - my mom disappeared in the middle of the night and left my dad with 5 kids - when I was 10.  I was raised by my father and grandfather and I have never had the experience or benefit of a "mother figure" in my life.  My mother-in-law is a very dear friend -- but I actually do not know what the "mom" experience is - I've never had it.  I am a mom - and I love my 2 daughters fiercely.  I would have hated to miss seeing them grow up -- and I'd like to think if I wasn't in their lives physically - I'd be by their side everyday in every other way. 

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I lost my mother and father. It has been over 15 years since my mother passed away and it's still hard for me now. I believe there is a special bond between daughter and mother that you can have with no other. I still miss her badly today and wish I had known more about her. I may have known more about who I am today....


 


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