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Here's Who You Really Marry

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Posted 2 months ago

 

I loved this quote...what do you think?


 


You don't marry one person; you marry three:



  1.  the person you think they are,

  2.  the person they are, and

  3.  the person they are going to become as a result of being married to you.


 from Richard Needham


 


Crystal A. Hernandez, M.S., MFT
Relational Resources for Professional Women Juggling Marriage, Family, and Career
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Rated: 0 | Posted 2 months ago

 

I think all of those three points are true.I'm going to keep that in mind when I find my 'Mr.Right'.


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I fell in love with #1, Never knew #2, and Never liked #3.  LOL

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Rated: 0 | Posted 2 months ago

 

brandylynn1975 says ...



I fell in love with #1, Never knew #2, and Never liked #3.  LOL



LOL - never liked #3--that's hilarious Brandylynn!


Crystal A. Hernandez, M.S., MFT
Relational Resources for Professional Women Juggling Marriage, Family, and Career
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Rated: 0 | Posted 2 months ago

 

Brandylynn: You're hilarious.


And Chris, I think the quote is spot-on. I wonder how many people on the brink of engagement consider this though. Probably not many.


Daniela
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Rated: 0 | Posted 2 months ago

 

Oh, heck, I married the man I thought I knew I wanted because my mother thought he was good. And you know what, it worked out pretty well. :)

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Rated: 0 | Posted 2 months ago

 

Oh goodness...think of the possibilitiesif you could marry 3 people (at once)...


You are all great respondants!   Good to start the day with a smile-

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Rated: 0 | Posted about 1 month ago

 

I would most definitely agree with this! 


Cindy

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Rated: 0 | Posted about 1 month ago

 

Very interesting.


Ms. Antoinette M. Brown

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Rated: 0 | Posted about 1 month ago

 

Here's my take on the matter:


#1         He played a saint for a short while until after marriage, and I bought it  !!! ( such a fool, all that glitters is not gold)


#2         I could not live with it , so I  took the highway ( too much for a girl to digest in a short lifetime)


#3        That was aborted.