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I'd be a rich woman.

yes do you think its possible to will yourself to switch teams?

I am a lesbian and I wish there were times I wasnt... and could just be attracted to men...two women is not all its cracked up to be, sometimes...

: o) ~ women are beautiful aren't they???? If I had a dime for everytime, I would have a dollars to spare even though I do have, in my humble opinion ~ a wonderful husband...........

To be honest, before I get married.. I'd love to experience something with a girl. I'm picky though. She has to be tall, skinny, Hot & Blond!!

And it has to be her first too. So we can experiment! :)

Haha thanks for the first-person insight, Anja! :)

Thank you everyone...I guess relationships are hard period...no matter what gender you are. 

I was down because of a particularly unfeeling male I was dating when I wrote this post a few months ago.  Its been good...Ive taken a break from dating since November....and it was really tough at first, but I've gotten so much out of it!  I highly recommend taking time off and getting grounded in yourself if you are feeling burned instead of rushing off to medicate your broken heart with a rebound romance.

Actually, i am a lesbian and its hard for some to believe and accept.  Yes lesbian relationships have drama, just all other relationships, but women rock, and i can think of myself with a man.

“If I had a dime for every time I wished I was a lesbian…” I guess I wouldn’t have much else to do; it is something I hear most often, if not more then that.

All though the recipe must have changed. I was walking past a coffee house with college ladies sitting at an outside table, when one coyly whispered to the other “ooh he’s cute…isn’t he.” I thought a handsome man must be near and typically, I am not quick with words and traditionally would have kept walking.

Except today, the group’s focus was clear and so I turned my head to say “Yeah isn’t he.”

A look of surprise and shock swept over their faces in hearing the distinctly female voice; in the realization of what had just taken place the group collectively blushed and gently laughed, with one saying “well he/she is still cute isn’t he?.”

It is one of the best compliments I’ve received.

STARSHINE says ...your past dosen't predict your future, so keep your eye onthe dounut not on the whole.p.s. no pun intended

 

   well, i can say from all my wisdom that it is all good no matter which side your on.

 i have crossed the line and found the love on either side is just complicated .

can't say I'll never do it again but i do love my ironman.And even he make's me think about the good old days every now and then .I think they call that "grass is greener" syndrome. 

 oh, an kj that really is a great compliment. you rock !!!

I personally have never wished I was a lesbian....

I have observed that often a younger lady expects another woman to be, well "ideal"...not prone to the head games they may have experienced with a man. And therefore are surprised to find the same jealousies/control/etc issues. Men and women are so very different...and so very much the same!

KJ_sb says ...

“If I had a dime for every time I wished I was a lesbian…” I guess I wouldn’t have much else to do; it is something I hear most often, if not more then that.

All though the recipe must have changed. I was walking past a coffee house with college ladies sitting at an outside table, when one coyly whispered to the other “ooh he’s cute…isn’t he.” I thought a handsome man must be near and typically, I am not quick with words and traditionally would have kept walking.

Except today, the group’s focus was clear and so I turned my head to say “Yeah isn’t he.”

A look of surprise and shock swept over their faces in hearing the distinctly female voice; in the realization of what had just taken place the group collectively blushed and gently laughed, with one saying “well he/she is still cute isn’t he?.”

It is one of the best compliments I’ve received.

Awww.....that's SWEET! 

You might be like that song "I kissed a girl and I liked it; hope my boyfriend don't mind it!" or something!

Yes I too agree and Daniela  is right the her comment.  I have been married for 25 years and believe it or not I have had a few bi moments.  I struggled with the thought that I may have be a lesbian. But after getting through the rough period with my husband turns out I just like the excitment and senuality of being with another women.

Thats my 2 cents

what can i say...i also say all the time whatever floats ur boat!!  way in the past ...i would have been rich!! but it was just a bunch of "learning curves" if u will.  as i got older i relized what love and healthy relationships realy are.