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Bad Boy vs. Mr. Nice Guy

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Alicia_photo_2_talking_stuff_max50

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Posted 6 months ago

 

Are you a current or former bad boy lover? If you answered yes to either question why? Or do you prefer a Nice Guy with a little bad boy in him?

Butterfly_max50

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Rate This | Posted 5 months ago

 

i hate to love the bad boys but they are so hard to resist!! here's where it is hard to find a solution. you go for the bad guy bc he keeps you on your toes, but he always dicks you over. you go for the nice guy bc he treats you well, but you always dick him over bc you get bored. all in all, you need to find a balance. but does that exist??

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Rate This | Posted 5 months ago

 

I always seem to think I am going for the "nice guy" however they always seem to be interested in the " bad girls."

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Rate This | Posted 5 months ago

 

I like nice guys who do bad things sometimes. :)


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Rate This | Posted 5 months ago

 

Well recently ive fallen for bad guys who act like nice guys in the begining..then do a 180 and are just playing the nice guy role to get chics......but yeah im sure that their are a few guys that are inbetween and they are either taken or just havent been found yet...boo

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Rate This | Posted 3 months ago

 

When I was in high school I loved bad boys. But as I grew up I saw them for what they were - self centered, unreliable, irresponsible and a total waste of time.


There is nothing better for a woman or her self confidence than a good man.


It's not who you are that holds you back. It's who you think you're not. - Unknown

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Rate This | Posted 3 months ago

 

My man is a great guy  - and probably better than me when you look at who was the bad boy  or bad girl growing up - I win the award for bad.


 


BUT - he has just a little bit of bad boy in him - that is sexy to me!


Ann M. Evanston, MA
Creating AME-zing Women entrepreneurs, one woman at a time. www.AME-zingWoman.com

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Rate This | Posted 2 months ago

 

For some reason I seem to be attracted to the Bad Boys and when they hurt me I hate myself for being interested; I have this tendancy of believing bad boys are more exicting more like living on the edge, but I wish I could meet a nice guy for a change, but they all seem to be taken ...?????.....

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Rate This | Posted 2 months ago

 

Most of the guys I dated were nice, but my first college romance was with a bad boy. I met him when I was still recovering from the breakup of a two-year relationship. Looking back the guy was a total creep and treated women like crap. He preyed on my vulnerability.

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Rate This | Posted 2 months ago

 

romichel says ...



For some reason I seem to be attracted to the Bad Boys and when they hurt me I hate myself for being interested; I have this tendancy of believing bad boys are more exicting more like living on the edge, but I wish I could meet a nice guy for a change, but they all seem to be taken ...?????.....



Remember you attract what you believe! I have this tendancy of believing bad boys are more exicting more like living on the edge, but I wish I could meet a nice guy for a change, but they all seem to be taken ...?????..... That is a powerful belief and says what you attract!


Ann M. Evanston, MA
Creating AME-zing Women entrepreneurs, one woman at a time. www.AME-zingWoman.com

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Rate This | Posted 2 months ago

 

I've heard that lament before..."where are all the nice guys?". It's usually followed by an immediate pushing the nice guy out of the way as they chase a "bad boy"...it reminds me also of the mantra that men are more visual (often spoken as they drool over the latest hunk). This is my experience, anyway.

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Rate This | Posted about 1 month ago

 

Daniela says ...


I like nice guys who do bad things sometimes. :)

I'm the opposite. I like bad boys who know how and when to be good and how to treat a lady.......and his mama.

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Rate This | Posted about 1 month ago

 

I was a former bad boy lover who got burned too many times (oh, the stories I could tell!).  My current husband is definitely a nice guy who has a little bit of bad boy in him... ;)

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Rate This | Posted about 1 month ago

 

I agree with Lacey2020.  You have to have a good balance between the two.  Too much of either doesn't work out most times.  I would lean towards more bad than good but I still like some good in my man.


Cindy

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Rate This | Posted about 1 month ago

 

OOOOh,   it has to be the perfect balance between the two.  A little bad boy look, with enough of the nice guy to know better.  A little bad boy temper, with a little nice guy to check it.  And so on.  Not too bad, and not too nice.  Kinda like ME!!!

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Rate This | Posted about 1 month ago

 

 I'm a geek lover. I'm attracted to intelligence. Geeks generally fall into the nice category, but that doesn't mean I go for nice men over all. I have respect for myself, so I would want a man to treat me like a lady. So, I'm attracted to nice guys, but only if they have quite a bit of intelligence. 


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