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How often do you have sex? How often do you like to have sex? Do you ever find yourself pressured into it - or are you usually the person to make the decisions about when to have sex, and when not to?

AnnEvanston your my hero, I was waiting for someone to answer first before I did. hahahahahhhaha
I feel the same way, love it, cannot get enough of it, same partner for 6 years, still turned on by him. Life is good!

Love It!  and get it/take it whenever I can!  Before the relationship I'm in now it always felt like a chore but now..... HOLD ON!!!  We calculated how many times we've "done it" since we've been together and the # was outrageous!  We must enagage that loving "position" at least once every night and 2-3 times on the weekend.  Whoa!  I better stop it's only 1:15pm and he doesn't get home till 5!

The prude is bravely answering: How often? Varies. Not enough though, I am usually the one who is too tired and craves ZZzzzz's sadly. On a good week: 4X. Can be more abundant when kids not around- and can go less often when we are slaves to 'life.' He is always trying to initiate, I am traditionally the one who decides ...kind of like a gatekeeper.LOL! One thing that drives me crazy is the redundancy of our "time" together- ALWAYS at night-in our boudior.

KatS says ...

OK, EverydayFeminist you've opened a door for me. I was thinking about this the other night as my SO and I were reminiscing.  I can't believe I'm about to tell ya'll this but what the hell....  Anthony and I were outside on the porch enjoying a drink and watching the rain.  I went over to him, stradled his legs and kissed him for what seemed like hours.  One thing led to another and before we realized we were outside... we were done.  Yes ladies, we got it on outside, on the porch while it was raining and it was OH SO NICE!!!!  Ha, that felt good!  I mean sharing this with ya'll but that night felt good too though. LOL

You have to do stuff like that. Those are the types of things that keep the excitement going in the sexual aspect of the relationship. Always in the bed, in the missionary position is BORING!!! Keep him wondering when it's going to happen. Enjoy it yourself.

mzbrown says ...

I always like these kinds of questions and answers!

How often do you have sex? NOT OFTEN ENOUGH!!! my fiance lives 750 miles away, and we see each other, every other months, but just know that I try to make up for everyday of that 2 months when I see him!!!!

How often do you like to have sex? Everyday

We mutually agree but I'm generally the person to make the decision.

WOW MZ  - is this a permanent arrangement?  I'll bet those 2 months are out of this world!  Power to ya, G'friend!

I love and often hunger for the touch, affection, and YOWZA of great sex.  I'd say we're a 3x/week couple but I'd prefer more.  My way of getting it is often unconventional...like initiating a, uh...how do I say? A "BJ" in the car.  He'll protest for a while but then suddenly I find we're turning onto the highway.  (wink)

pjricher says ...

mzbrown says ...

I always like these kinds of questions and answers!

How often do you have sex? NOT OFTEN ENOUGH!!! my fiance lives 750 miles away, and we see each other, every other months, but just know that I try to make up for everyday of that 2 months when I see him!!!!

How often do you like to have sex? Everyday

We mutually agree but I'm generally the person to make the decision.

WOW MZ  - is this a permanent arrangement?  I'll bet those 2 months are out of this world!  Power to ya, G'friend!

NO, HECK NO, this isn't a permanent arrangement. I haven't relocated yet, and am counting down the days until I see him again...just came from down there the weekend before last, and feel the need to go back already!!! Those 2 months are miserable. If there was some other way, I would be doing it, trust me!