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Working From Home Is Still Work
It may look like home, but it should also look like your office!
Qiana Brown | WomenCo.
August 05, 2008
When I decided several years ago to work from home, I was excited. I was excited about the prospect of creating something that was all mine. I was excited about setting my own hours. No one could tell me what to do or how to do it. My schedule would be mine. If I did not want to answer the telephone, I wouldn’t. I could rollout of bed, get the kids to school, kiss my hubby good-bye and stroll over to my desk in my p-j’s and no one would be the wiser. Work from home bliss.
Life was going to be good. I could just see the dollar signs flowing into my bank account because from home I could be more productive. I could nurture relationships with clients that I thought would be the most beneficial. With no worries about asking for time off when the kids needed a sick day or when my husband and I could manage the same time off for vacations, I was ready and set to go.
After a few weeks of stay at home bliss I noticed that not only had I not received my standard bi-weekly paycheck, there were no self-produced dollars flowing in from anywhere. What was wrong with this picture? I had it all planned out. I had the perfect home office set up, a supportive spouse and all the time in the world to make my dreams come true.
That was two years ago, and believe me I have learned quite a bit since that fateful three-month period when I questioned my ability to think for myself and manage myself. Because that’s what happens when you decide to go out on your own. It’s never quite as easy as you thought it would be, no matter how good you were at your job. There are always questions that you did not ask yourself before you ventured out to take over the world, and the fallout from that can seem brutal.
The good thing is that if you are really serious about successfully managing a home business, there are some wonderful tips that can set you on the path to success. So here goes—
Get dressed for work. In the working world you probably took pride in the way you looked when you went in to the office. Very often a sharp suit could set just the right tone for your day. You had more pep in your step. You were the captain of your ship. The same thing goes when you are at home. You feel like a professional when you are dressed like a professional, and this leads to better use of your time. So, when you are taking a business call your tone and demeanor will reflect the way you are feeling about your appearance. Also, when you look like a professional, others will take your work time more seriously. Your husband and children will not be quite as prone to infringe on your work time if you are not dressed like “mommy”.

kellymccausey
about 1 month ago
30 comments
Qiana, I like your advice - though I follow none of it myself LOL! I'd love to have you as a guest on Work at Home Moms Talk Radio to share some of your great tips with my listeners :)
AngelaK
4 months ago
1242 comments
Great article Qiana.
Jackey
4 months ago
94 comments
This article is great! This is so true I thought working at home would be a breeze in fact I found more distractions at home and if you don't use self discipline you can sabotage your business very quickly.
Jorgelina
4 months ago
34 comments
I enjoy this article !!! excellent !!! I think if we manage our resources -time, money, schedule our activities, etc- work hard and have a proper behaviour to each circumstance -appearence, conduct etc we can be successful in every place we decide to work.
Treasures
4 months ago
44 comments
This is a must-read for any one who hasbeen 'tossing around the prospect of working from home'.
Belkis
4 months ago
64 comments
I work from home and I found it so hard to get stuff done at first. But like the article said, get dress for work! That helps so much.
castelc
4 months ago
46 comments
Great article! Lots of helpful suggestions for people who are considering going out on their own. It may be a scary first step, but in the grand scheme of things, it can be very productive and self-rewarding having your own home business and being your own boss.
ChrisMar
4 months ago
140 comments
The to-do-list is essential for me as I am otherwise too distracted. Also, making sure the family respects the time and space dedicated to my work is important to me, although my littlest (2yrs old) still acts as if "the office" is just another room in her home!
Deb_post
4 months ago
14 comments
Been there, done that, and I have the t-shirt! It is hard work to work at home. I would get up, shower, get dressed in casual clothes (not gym clothes), take the kids to school and then come home and work. Well...sorta. You see, I would start off good..actually great and then get stuck. I worked as a computer programmer...so I get stuck and then the laundry would call my name...so I did laundry. Then I would work...and the dishes would call..etc. So then...it was time to get the kids, cook...etc. I would end the day..working until 2:00am or so to finish a task. After several years, I decided I liked structure and wanted a 9-5 job and got one. Somedays, I miss it but the structure keeps me happy and sane.
mistyfuncity48
4 months ago
2 comments
I thought that having a home-based business was the ideal way to go but when i saw all the work thats involved i thought it better to work for someone else.I will just wait until i get the sugarballs to do it!! lol
LindaG
4 months ago
92 comments
I was laughing as I read this article because I can relate to much of it. I struggled for a long time with setting the right office hours. I felt that it defeated the purpose of working for myself if I was tied to the 'office' from 9-5. I now intentionally schedule a couple of long breaks during the day so that I have the flexibility to go out to lunch or run errands.
qianab
5 months ago
46 comments
If I don't have a to do list I am lost as far as production goes.
AJaneChambers
5 months ago
320 comments
Start your day with a to-do list is a good idea. I find that it works best if I make it the day before when I've finished "work" that day, because I'm in the flow of work and know what I've done and what needs to be done next.